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I believe one of the reasons why I started writing in a blog is to share my ideas and get it out of my system, maybe its the fact that I prefer to write down my thoughts rather than telling them to someone who I know wouldn't be able to understand me, or in other words won't be able to tell me what I'm expecting to hear.
In this entry I have no specific topic to talk about, Im just feeling like saying some stuff and would like to share with my readers.
What makes you an achiever in life? Who determines if you left a foot print in this world or you were just like a cold breeze that came and went without any one noticing that? I know most people struggle in life, some struggle in school to graduate, some struggle to get a healthy life and stay away from diseases, some struggle to save their social life, and many many more, but the thing is does every struggle means a foot print? If I spent half my life studying and building up my career will I put my foot print? or will I just be someone who attended classes and sat next to complete strangers?
What I realized is that any foot print wont be visible to everyone in the world, some people will notice it while they walk while others would just step on it and ignore it, so anything you will do would be of some value for someone in addition to yourself. In life we meet people, we make friends, we fall in love, and we even hurt some people around us, I believe that these things will leave its mark over time and people will remember us for it.
Live your life and be sure to be someone people would want to remember, you don't have to kill your self to make your name, you just have to believe in your self and trust me everything you do in life no matter how small it is, no matter how unimportant it may seem would leave a mark on someone.

Cheers :)

Me

 

I would define a personality as the way you talk, they way you act around people, and the way you look at different situations that you face. Our personalities are shaped by the environment around us, the picture we have in our minds for what we want to be, and the ups and downs in our daily lives.
your personality is what really defines you, and by that I'm saying that once you change it you are lost! What I'm trying to say is a personality is a unique thing in you, some people might find it appealing, while others might not like it, and when people finds a flaw in your personality then maybe its their problem after all not yours, you don't really have to change who you are just because someone doesn't find you attractive.
Think about it this way, as long as you have people who loves you the way you are then there is nothing wrong with you, seeking to satisfy everyone is impossible, so stop worrying about satisfying people and focus on who you are. I personally think that some people around me would love to change somethings in me in order to be a better person, but as long as I'm comfortable with the way I am I won't need anyone to change who I am, if you want me just accept me as I am and not who you want me to be.

Cheers :)

Letting Go

 

Few months ago I have made a decision, try my best to keep people I know happy and satisfied with me no matter how hard it is, by that I mean I would make them happy, would never say anything to hurt them, and become a better person around them. one of the reasons why I wanted to do so was that I noticed Im losing some people around me, I'm not sure if it was me or them but for some reason I'm losing some really good friends, so the solution was to do my best and blame myself for that at first and see how it goes, but the big question was were they all worth my tries?
After few months I have found the answer for that question, not all people deserve all that after all. I had friends who responded very well to my actions and we became even better, those I would call good friends, those I would want to be around when I need someone to talk to, those I would rely on when Im in trouble, those are called true friend who would understand how much I try to be a better human being and I'm trying my best to show how much I care.
Thank you very much (M) for understanding and for being there for me, I wish you are reading this now so I can tell you how much I appreciate you giving me another chance to prove how much you mean to me and how much I love being your friend.
Thank you very much (A) for bringing in your true face, we were like brothers one day but after what we have been through lately I would say Im really indifferent if you were close or far, I have tried to improve and be a better person but when I needed you and you werent there for me that would make you less of a friend. It was nice having you as a close friend for a while but I think people do move on and its my pleasure to be a friend only not a brother as you say.
I know some readers might find this entry a little bit confusing, but I really wanted to get some stuff out of my chest, and remember a true friend is hard to get now, so if you have one now grab on him tight because you never know where life would take you.

Cheers :)

Children

 

I might not be the person who is in love with all children, I'm good with children in some ways but I don't like all of them, some of them I find disturbing and need some manners in order to be liked. And what I don't like more are children who lives inside adults! I believe that some adults don't act according to their age or are not mature enough and would give you the impression that they are still children.
I have reached the age where I look at things from a complete different perspective, and I do have some expectations for the people whom I grow up with, family members and friends as well, for example when I open a topic for discussion or try to solve a problem I expect people to use their brains and use common sense as minimum requirements for our conversations, but sadly I still find that some people didn't grow up yet. They say that people grow up in certain times and become grown ups, specially people who travel and live abroad, I'm not saying that its the only chance where people can improve them selves but its one of the common ways, but unfortunately I know some people who are still thinking like teenagers, I can't say that all teenagers think in a bad way but I mean that the way they look at things are different than others, its not wrong to think like a teenager when you are one but its wrong when you still believe you are a teenager and you are getting old.
The question is should we point out this idea for them? Or should we convince ourselves that they will grow someday? What if they are hurting people around them? What if they are hurting themselves and their lives?
I would personally like to know how would you deal with a friend who thinks in an immature way, maybe your ideas can help me deal with some of them people I know :)

Cheers :)

Don't Leave Home...

 

When I first applied to university in Australia I never told any of my friends until I got my acceptance letter and knew exactly when I'm planing to leave, I knew that it would be hard to loose someone we love or care for so I wanted to make it easier. At the airport while I was saying goodbye it was one of the most emotional moments of my life, it made me realize how much people care for me and will miss me until I come back home.
 once heard that saying goodbye is he easy part, because the hard part is what comes afterwards, its how are we going to manage our lives to go on, I was used to call my friends everyday, go out every weekend, and we used to have certain activities together, but now we all have to learn how to adjust and keep life going on. Life has its own way of managing things, and it doesn't always go as we want it to go, maybe thats the challenge that we have to deal with, maybe its natures way of trying to make us stronger and be flexible, be able to accept change and try not to get over attached. I miss my friend and I will never think of forgetting them, but there are somethings in life that has to be done. In economics we have learned the concept of 'Opportunity Cost' which means that in order for someone to do action 1 he should accept loosing the ability to do action 2 or 3, I can stay home, get a job, and do the usual routine with my friends, but I chose to get my masters degree for a better life, it's hard to leave but as I said life just goes on.
Try being supportive even if you don't like it, it would be easier for them to leave, and don't forget to mention that you will be waiting for your loved ones to come back. I know that its a very important topic but there are too many things to say, and I would like to listen to Dido singing what I want to say.

Cheers :)

Ignorence

 

One of the hardest words for me to say is the word "Sorry". I find it very hard to apologize to people, I'm not sure why exactly but maybe it's the fact that I rarely admit that I'm wrong, or maybe that I think of it as a big word that should have its meaning so I'm saving it for the right moments. That got me thinking why do we some times look for troubles? why do we make something out of nothing? I admit that problems and misunderstandings can be seen as the spices of life, but that doesn't mean that we have to spice our lives that much, after all too much spices can really ruin the dish right? We can always try to look at the big picture and ignore small words that can lead to big misunderstanding after all.
I was on the phone with a friend and he was fighting with another one of my friends, I was trying to hear the story but after I heard it I found out that the whole situation doesn't make sense at all, why are you even fighting there is nothing to fight on! I believe the problem here is simple, sometimes we have to let go or ignore some of the things we her or see in order to live a happy life, we can't ask for an explanation for every single word we hear or every single action we see, we live in a diverse world where some people might not mean harm by the words the express or the deeds they do, its just the way they think, so why make up something out of nothing?
In my life I have learned that sometimes you have to let it go and ignore some facts around me in order to live in peace, and I realized that sometimes you have to fake that things are ok with people while its not just to live your life in peace, maybe I hate some people but I don't show it for a reason, because one day when something happens these people will remember me as the person who was nice to them, and not the person that they are glad that he won't be around for some reason.
I'm not trying to influence you to be fake, what Im trying to do is to show that life runs in a certain way, I myself hate to fake my feelings towards others but think about it this way, you can be honest and people around you hate you and think you are the crazy person with issues, or you can try to fake sometimes (not all the time) and be remembered as the person who is always nice to people around. after all its your life and you make your own choices.

Cheers :)