Sunday, December 26, 2010

Love... at first sight

Love at first sight.. a phrase we hear a lot in movies and western series, it is defined as falling in love with a person you saw for the first time, but the question that we should think of is it really love? Or is it something else that we don’t understand and we saw it as love? Maybe you like this person but you don’t really love him, maybe you think this person is so perfect for you but you don’t really love him.
A friend once told me his story, he talked to this girl online, they were talking for hours and hours and he really liked her, she was so sweet and polite, suddenly she said that she can’t talk to him anymore because they are together in the same college and she doesn’t want anybody to talk bad about her. He was sad and asked her just to see her once just to know her or maybe say hi. Every day he tries to look as good as he could waiting for this girl who he doesn’t know how she looks to approach him and say hi, he waited too long for her but she never came. Did he really loved her? Is it fine to fall in love with a ghost? How can he love someone he didn’t even see? What if she wasn’t even a girl, or maybe someone who is bored and want to play with people some silly sick jokes?
Love is a big word that carries a lot of meanings in it, but the thing is why do we fall in love quickly? Why do we sometimes love people that don’t deserve it? Why do we love people and then we realize that we don’t even know those people well to love them? I guess it’s human nature, we have to love the people around us in order to survive and continue on living, we can’t live alone, we need people around us.
No matter if it’s right or wrong, just keep on loving, don’t regret giving your love to anyone, and always live your day as it was your last.
Cheers J

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